Before her demise, Blessing Monday, 19,
led a simple life. She was the last among six children of her parents
and lived with her family at Illamija in Epe, Lagos.
On March 11, 2012, Blessing was on her
father’s farm working, as she was wont to do, when she was attacked by
her brother-in-law, Ime Titus.
CRIME DIGEST investigations
show that the assailant had approached her while she was busy harvesting
cassava in the farm and demanded to have sex with her.
Blessing’s refusal to yield to Titus’s
demand had led to a scuffle. In the process, she slumped and died. But
that did not stop him from going ahead to defile her.
Confessing to the deed, Titus said,
“Blessing went limp immediately I hit her and she stopped struggling
with me. I didn’t know that she was dead, although she was bleeding on
the spot where I hit her. I went ahead to rape her and when I finished,
I went into hiding again.”
Before the incident, Titus, 29, had
enjoyed a close relationship with the family of his victim. “I have
known her family for many years. My uncle is married to her eldest
sister. At the time, Blessing was quite young,” he said.
Although the Mondays’ home in Illamija
was a long distance from his residence in Epe, Titus always found the
time and resources to visit the family frequently. But unknown to
members of that family, the young man’s sole motive was to gain the
attention of the deceased. It was an ambition that he had nursed for a
long time.
“I live with my elder brother at
Moshalashi Street in Epe. Although I had known Blessing for some time, I
didn’t start pestering her for love until a few weeks before she died.
Anytime I asked, she would turn me down. I tried my best, but nothing
would move Blessing,” Titus confessed.
Blessing’s parents might have noticed his attachment to their daughter, but they never suspected that it would cause her harm.
Determined to have his way, Titus
hatched a plan. Aware that the father of the deceased owned a cassava
farm from which his family supplemented their diet, he decided to visit
their residence once again.
He said, “Before I left, I asked
Blessing’s father if there was any job that he wanted done for a fee
because I knew he owned a cassava farm. He replied in the negative and
advised me to find a trade to gainfully occupy myself. I thanked him and
left. I had no money on me to pay my fare back to Epe. So I had to
spend the night in the bush.”
CRIME DIGEST learnt that Titus
chose a vantage position, from where he could easily monitor Blessing’s
movement. He spent two days in the bush and was at the mercy of insects
and reptiles. Not even hunger could compel him to abandon his devious
plan. And then, on the evening of the second day, when Blessing came out
of her house, he had known it was time to strike.
Titus continued, “I knew she was going
to the farm to harvest some cassava and so I followed her. When she got
to the farm and started working, I showed up and asked her for sex.
Again she refused, but I was determined to have my way. So I forced her.
“Blessing put up a fight. She struggled
and scratched me with her nails on my face. At this point, it was clear
that I wasn’t going to have things easy. Out of desperation, I picked up
a heavy stick and hit her on the head with it.”