One wonders the
kind of examples church members learn from their leaders these days,
giving the kind of atrocities that are being reported about some pastors
in recent times.
The founder and general overseer of Lord’s Delight Ministries located at
No.51 Afolabi Stree, Ajangbadi in Lagos, Pastor Rita Obioma Obiakor and
her husband, Pastor Paulinus Obiakor, are currently entangled in a web
of accusations and counter accusations of infidelity and other
behaviours unbecoming of people in their positions.
We gathered that
the couple recently shared their sordid stories before an Ojo customary
court presided over by T.A. Said, where the wife had dragged her
estranged husband to. Pastor (Mrs.) Rita, who hails from Imo State, is
seeking for the dissolution of their 15-year-old marriage.
She alleged that her husband and father of her four children has turned a
thorn in her flesh.
Here is her own
side of the story: “My husband is on the verge of destroying all the
works and efforts that I have put in place to establish this church over
the years”.
“I got married to him when I was barely 16 years old, and he, 27 years.
Then he had nothing, jobless and looking very unkept. I started doing
odd jobs to make both ends meet. Precisely in 2005, the Lord called me
into his vineyard to serve him and show his people the right path.
“My calling was a prophetic one, so was my ministry.
Since the
establishment of that ministry in our two-bedroom apartment at Amukoko,
the Lord has been blessing us. But my husband was like a Judas to my
ministry. He was always behaving abnormally to the members, until I made
him a part of the church and also gave him a good post. Yet he wouldn’t
let me be.
He is always
accusing me of sleeping with church members during night vigil or
anointing services”.
Pastor Rita said her husband’s greed and jealousy has done much damage
to the image she had laboured so much to build. The disharmony between
the couple degenerated to the extent that she was forced to buy another
plot of land at Shibiri, Ajangbadi, a faraway suburb, and constructed a
new church, thereby abandoning the old church located at No. 1 Bakare
Street, Amukoko.
She also
abandoned their accommodation, as well as give up some members of the
old church to her estranged husband. “I moved in with my children to a
rented apartment close to the (new) church while my faithful members
moved into our new church.. So I had to ban him from entering the church
and having access to the members too,” she said.
Also according to today's gist blog, giving his own
side of the story the husband brought a new twist to the divorce case.
The 45-year old clergy accused his wife of defiling the church by
sleeping with prominent male members of the congregation in order to
raise fund and establish herself financially.
The land she
acquired for the new church and her new apartment, Pastor Obiakor
alleged, were paid for with fund she raised from her illicit s*xual
affairs with male church members.
“My wife is the founder of the church, but as her husband, I am entitled
to be the general overseer of the church. I had suspected my wife was
frolicking with the wealthy and influential members of the church, my
fears were eventually ascertained when she abandoned me and moved to her
new church and apartment at Shibiri with a younger man she employed as
her personal assistant known as Pastor Nwachineye,” Obiakor claimed.
Pastor Obiakor
disclosed that his wife, Pastor Rita, has been impregnated by the pastor
she employed. He went further to disclose that she even took the young
man in question to the village and introduced him to her family members
and relatives as her new husband. “That is a big sacrilege because I am
still very much alive and active, so why would she take another man to
replace me,” he argued.
But in spite of
everything, Pastor Obiakor revealed that he still wanted her back. He
admitted that his estranged wife was more like the bread winner of the
family before their union ran into troubled waters. He said he is ready
to forgive her of her transgressions and take her back as his wife if
only she would withdraw the suit.
After listening to the pastors, T.A. Said adjourned to matter for
further hearing.
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