My first sexual encounter
My first introduction to sex was rape. It
was with one of our tenants. I got so close to him and saw him as an
elder brother. He looked at me as someone that had been exposed because I
was busty and he thought I had had a sexual experience before. So he
had his way with me. Then it was not something you tell the whole world.
People said we should keep quiet about it. Then they tried to make
trouble with him but subsequently people said we should keep quiet about
it. We had to try and manage it in our own way even though it affected
me for a long time psychologically. I had to gradually get over it. I
believed so much in the principle of keeping your virginity till you are
married. I started showbiz from Teen TV on DBN with Chichi Okaro. Then I
used to be so vocal and when we spoke about pre-marital sex and
virginity, I was always so passionate about it. It was such a
disadvantage and a pity for me.
My experience as a busty lady
At the initial stage, I used to be so
ashamed of myself. At that time, I would wear clothes that would not let
my bust be noticeable. I was trying everything I could so that it would
not be obvious. Subsequently, when I started acting and reading books, I
read a book that said the best admirer you have is yourself and the way
you carry yourself is how people would take you. I had to psyche myself
to love it. After I did so, I noticed that I was getting advances even
from people I didn’t expect, like some of my late father’s friends.
Being a deep thinker, I always look at the advantage of everything, I
saw that it was something I could not change so I had to make the best
out of it.
I got it into my sub-conscious that it was a plus than minus.
I have had reasons to talk to a lot of people that are busty and who do
not appreciate themselves. They now see it as an asset than a
liability.
Source: PUNCH (punchng.com )
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