Please note: This story was originally published in Global News in their last issue.
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His
name is Uti Nwachukwu; some call him “Ugo Na Chonmma”, others refer to
him as Omoge to Rewa or the Hausa title “Kyakywar Yarinya” (gorgeous
damsel).
The
story of Uti will not only set the pace for blockbuster chart but is
capable of re-orientating most struggling young lads out there. He is an
ex-Big Brother winner and sometime in the past there had been very
audible speculations about his sexuality. But that has in no way stopped
the viciously ambitious young man from forging ahead. It is a known
fact that most housemates and winners of both reality and talent shows
become very irrelevant not too long after their rise to spontaneous
stardom but for Uti, that is not the case as he has come in full blast
into the world of entertainment.
From
acting to presenting even to comedy shows, he’s calling the shots but
it is in the area of style and fashion that his profile has witnessed
the most astronomical rise. Local designers court him faster than Harry
Winston does with Hollywood stars. There is no red carpet event that he
does not attend looking glamorous and expensively trendy, give it to
him, his swagger is unrivaled.
But
in recent times, it is Uti’s sexuality that has become a hot topic
amongst most Lagos big boys and girls and the sole reason is simply
because he has not conducted his affairs with discretion. The reason why
this open secret has somehow evaded the front pages of tabloids is due
to his impeccable public relations and close ties with those style,
fashion and celebrity editors. It is pertinent to note that in addition
to being a style icon, Uti has become the most celebrated gaayy icon
from this side of the divide.
Young
boys who are either bisexuals or homosexuals look up to him for
inspiration with the belief and confidence that if he could then they
can surely do. Uti shares his 1004 apartment on the up-market Victoria
Island with his alleged live-in-lover Alex Ekubo whose only credential
to fame is contesting the former Mr. Nigeria pageant. To justify their
living together, Uti would always refer to Alex as his “publicist”; he
tells you that Alex manages his social commitments hence they have to
live together.
The
affair between Uti and Alex is typical of what is obtained in the gaayy
community there’s never total loyalty and 100% submission to the other
partner that explains why Uti still has his many other casual flings and
Alex does his own by the side.
But
contrary to that impression, they have been dating since their path
crossed and were they to be living in any western country this
relationship would have most likely had some sort of legalization to it,
but unfortunately this is Nigeria where we pretend to have zero
tolerance for this abnormal love relationship.
Perfectly
illustrate how their affair thrives it will be important to simplify
the gaayy strata; in the gaayy world there are three stanzas: top,
bottom, and versatile. The top is the man in the relationship and he
penetrates the bottom who acts as the woman in the relationship. The
versatile is that lover who can play both roles. Gorgeous Alex who is
not only the man in this relationship but well-endowed in the down
region has built a reputation amongst his previous lovers and it was a
devastation when they lost him to the passionately Intimate Uti who has
an insatiable quest for fun.
Uti
has undying fleets of female admirers but in his closet he would laugh
at them because they are all in search of the same thing he’s looking
out for. That explains why he has no girlfriend despite his super fit
look. This prompted one of the Island big girls who have exhausted all
tricks in the book trying to woo Uti to make a move she will live to
regret.
She
was invited to their 1004 apartment and she went with the delusion of
climaxing her best ecstasy only to receive an indescribable shock! After
the usual tete-a-tete Uti left her in the sitting room and returned to
the bedroom, when it was taking too long she decided to try her luck by
heading to the bedroom only to find Alex and Uti in a very
uncompromising position. She ran to the sitting room, picked her bag and
dashed off, even with apologies that came after, she still feels
humiliated as they should have waited for her to leave before getting
dirty.
That is just a tip of the iceberg into the erotically flamed relationship between the two
“supermodels”.
At the last Arise fashion show held at the Federal Palace Hotel, Uti
made sure designers who signed him on also signed on Alex otherwise he
wouldn’t work with them, this was to make sure that his darling
boyfriend is part and parcel of that prestigious show. It was a rude
shock to a lot of those present but they cared less because being on the
runway of such a well-publicized fashion show was going to be hugely
beneficial to Alex’s rising profile.
They
travel in and out of the country together, all sponsored by Uti, but
that is not to say that fine boy Alex has not worked for the perks he
has put in all his energy and strength in his “official” duties as his
“publicist” but is also very difficult for them as they cannot make this
affair public. Without an iota of doubt Alex is not only Uti’s
commitment as they seem to have an open sort of arrangement.
In
Abuja, Uti has become one scandalous high flyer, on numerous occasions
his name has been dragged into many boyfriend-snatching scandals
prompting one of Abuja leading gaayy flyers to declare him unwanted in
his circle of friends. The way he rolls his eyes and bats his eyelid add
that to his high octane preening, Uti prides himself as having the
ability to bend a straight guy.
His
undoing is his lousiness in dropping the names of important
personalities that have greased his oil well and how powerfully
connected he has become, unknown to him even his close friends might be
wearing encrypted wrist watches capable of audio recording voices his
house or hook-up spot. Uti’s case is not isolated, when a popular pop
star was ousted he quickly picked a student from one of the remote
universities in the eastern part of the country and tied the knot with
her (which normal girl will not want an upgrade no matter the conditions
attached).
This
kind of case is not only peculiar with Nigeria. Popular US talk show
host and queen of gossip on American TV last month called Kanye West
gaayy on her talk show “Two Sisters Living Together” referring to his
well-publicized relationship with reality superstar, Kim Kardashian. In
2009, 50 cent also referred to Kanye West as gaayy in a live radio
broadcast while fielding questions on rap culture.
They
are just a confirmation of the sexuality rumours that have surrounded
the rap mogul, Hollywood actor Tom Cruise has been a subject of eternal
gaayy rumor leading comedians like Fashion Police host Joan Rivers to
openly call him gaayy on her hugely popular fashion program. Until his
latest series of gaayy scandal where over half a dozen men have come out
to claim that John Travolta sexually abused them in their massage
parlour, most bloggers and tabloids in America have consistently
maintained that Travolta was gaayy even though he is married with kids
to actress Kelly Preston.
In
Nigeria today the number of well-meaning Nigerians who are married yet
remain gaayys is to put it mildly explosive, if only the public knew how
they have been fooled, including the Nollywood hunk of South Eastern
origin who has wrongly led all to believe that he made his millions
dating powerful and rich women in the society, whereas he acquired his
financial liquidity greasing the oil well of a former south-south
governor or the married record label owner who must taste your chocolate
stick before he signs you on his label.
This
exponential list could contain your husband, father, brother, fiance or
even son hence it will be good not to quickly pass judgments on the
likes of Uti and company.
Source: Global News
(Culled from talkofnaija.com )
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